We all have that one friend that can’t keep her mouth shut! That one girl who can’t keep everyone’s name out her mouth, and who just loves to gossip about her so called friends! You guys know what I’m talking about because you have a friend like that too.
I have one of those friends, she’s forever telling me about another friends fashion no-no’s and who her latest man-candy is! I always say to her “Hmm I wonder what you say about me behind my back!” And the truth is, she’s probably talking a bunch of shit about me now!
Like it or not, we all tend to gossip a little, just a little. But there’s a difference between a little friendly conversation and every single sentence coming out of your mouth is bashing someone else. It’s not cute, and it’s wasting time that you could be talking about something else more important!
When you have a friend who is forever talking about someone else, try to change the subject! “Becky looked cray cray in that orange-” Nope! Zip it! Nobody wants to hear it all day every day! If you find a new piece of juicy info, of course you’re going to want to tell your girlfriends! But gossiping shouldn’t be all you think about, all day every day!
When I’m finding myself in that gossipy mood, I try to just talk to my dog about it! Like I always say, she’ll never get tired of listening to me. She’s obsessed with me and I can talk all I want! And when it’s so juicy I can’t just tell her, I spill it to the humans! But I very rarely gossip, because what I know is what I know, and you never know when you’re going to need that information on someone (I’m not encouraging blackmail ladies ahahaha)!
Bottom line... when it comes to gossip, just be careful with who you’re gossiping with and about… You’re not the only one with a big mouth, and neither is your friend talking trash about Becky! Watch what you say, because you never want drama! Getting caught out on talking shit is the worst! So what better way to avoid it than to just not do it! You’ll thank me later, you’re welcome!
Until next time ladies, Stay beautiful. Stay positive. Stay YOU!
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