Ziggy

We all have that one friend that can’t keep her mouth shut!  That one girl who can’t keep everyone’s name out her mouth, and who just loves to gossip about her so called friends!  You guys know what I’m talking about because you have a friend like that too.

I have one of those friends, she’s forever telling me about another friends fashion no-no’s and who her latest man-candy is! I always say to her “Hmm I wonder what you say about me behind my back!” And the truth is, she’s probably talking a bunch of shit about me now!

Like it or not, we all tend to gossip a little, just a little.  But there’s a difference between a little friendly conversation and every single sentence coming out of your mouth is bashing someone else.  It’s not cute, and it’s wasting time that you could be talking about something else more important!

When you have a friend who is forever talking about someone else, try to change the subject!  “Becky looked cray cray in that orange-” Nope!  Zip it!  Nobody wants to hear it all day every day!  If you find a new piece of juicy info, of course you’re going to want to tell your girlfriends!  But gossiping shouldn’t be all you think about, all day every day! 

When I’m finding myself in that gossipy mood, I try to just talk to my dog about it!  Like I always say, she’ll never get tired of listening to me.  She’s obsessed with me and I can talk all I want!  And when it’s so juicy I can’t just tell her, I spill it to the humans!  But I very rarely gossip, because what I know is what I know, and you never know when you’re going to need that information on someone (I’m not encouraging blackmail ladies ahahaha)!

Bottom line... when it comes to gossip, just be careful with who you’re gossiping with and about… You’re not the only one with a big mouth, and neither is your friend talking trash about Becky!  Watch what you say, because you never want drama! Getting caught out on talking shit is the worst!  So what better way to avoid it than to just not do it!  You’ll thank me later, you’re welcome!

Until next time ladies, Stay beautiful. Stay positive. Stay YOU!

–Ziggy

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MsJ

I am sure that many of you have heard about some women “dumbing” themselves down in order to get a man.  Yes, they think that they have to pretend to be “less smart” in order for them to appear more attractive to men.  They think that men are mostly attracted to women who are “bubble-heads” (women who do not use their brains) who look sexy on the outside.  It’s sad to say, but unfortunately a lot of beautiful women have been doing this for years.

In Bev’s commentary on this subject, she talks about the perfect combination of beauty and brains.  No woman should ever dumb herself down in order to attain or maintain a relationship.  This is always a dating NO NO.  If you need to do this, this means that the man does not love you for who you are.  They love a fake, lesser you.  You should never display a lesser you at any time for any reason!

Sure, there are many men out there who wants a “bubble-head” girl to be in a relationship with.  However, there are also many men who wants a smart, strong woman to be their lover and life companion.  Think about if you were to marry a man who wants a “dumb down” woman.  What is that really saying about him?  Does he have some insecurities within himself leaving him not wanting to choose a well rounded woman?  Would you really want to marry him and have to live a lie your entire life?  Hopefully the answer is no because it’s just not necessary.

Don’t be ashamed to casually date until you find someone who really appreciates your brilliant mind as well as your beautiful body.  That’s a real and positive relationship you need to have and deserve!  For more information on Bev Knox Beauty & Brains lectures, CLICK HERE.

As always, keep your head up!

–Ms. J

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Above Average

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Everyone get that “gut feeling” from time to time.  I do, and so do you.  You know when you’re heading into a situation, whether it is a negative situation or not.  You know whether you should get in to relationship with a perspective bad boy or not.  You know whether you should hang around certain people or not.  You know whether that major investment your pouring all your money in to was solid or not.  Lets face you know, because you felt it in your gut.

So let me get the point.  Like Bev stated in her video commentary, you need to stop putting yourself in negative situations and then pleading for people to get you out! We are all grown-ups so we need to start acting like it.  One day, there will be no one to bail you out of that hot mess that you put yourself into.  Even if there are people to help bail you out now, you can’t live your life by relying on others to get you out of tricky situations.  That kind of thing is for teenagers! You’re a grown-up, an adult!  You should be able to assess the situations in your life to come to the conclusion if they will improve your life for the better or the worse.

It’s possible that you could get yourself in to a situation that could leave you in financial ruin, unhealthy or possibly cost you your life.  There’s just no reason to keep putting yourself in dubious situations for a thrill or a risk.

The best way to stay out of a negative situation is to question every choice you make completely before making a final decision.  Listen to your gut feeling and think before you act.  Your life will change for the better from every angel as soon as you learn how to make smarter, more positive choices!  Check out more personal development information by clicking here.

As always, keep your head up!

–Ms. J

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Ziggy

Many women now a days in relationships don’t put themselves first.  Pretty simple statement, right?!  Right.  What I mean by this is that they’re so focused on their man and what they bring to the relationship, they loose sight of themselves and what they had planned their future!

I know plenty of women who lost themselves in a relationship, and that’s really NOT good!  When you’re getting into a relationship, you’re supposed to be joining a partnership, a 50/50 type thing.  Your goals and ambitions and thoughts are just as important as your man’s!

BUT, a lot of the time…you spend less time focusing on you and more time focusing on him!  And do you think he’s doing the same?  No!  He’s more focused on himself, so that leaves you and your needs forgotten.  And you should NEVER forget about your own needs.  F#$% that dude!  Why are you so focused on a guy who isn’t nearly as focused on you!  That’s just not right!  Embrace yourself, and find someone who will embrace you just as much!

I have this one friend… she had dreams to go to college, get her car back on the road, and get herself a better paying job. But that all went downhill when she got back with her ex who mentally, physically, and emotionally drained her for everything she had!  Now, she’s back at point one.

But why does it have to be like that!?  She gave that boy nothing but love and affection and positive vibes, why wasn’t he giving that back in return?  Don’t get me started, cause I can talk about her the entire time!  But it’s not about me or my friends or anyone else… it’s about YOU!  You and your relationships!  You putting YOU first, go ahead!  You deserve it.

Bev is always saying, that you have to love yourself first before you can truly love someone else.  And I’m now telling you that!  How can you allow yourself to allow someone ELSE to suck you dry of your value, time, and energy?! Many of you are probably like “well I love him BLAH BLAH BLAH BULLSHIT!”  I don’t wanna hear it.  Love yourself first, and everything else will fall into place.  You’ll thank me later.  You’re welcome!

Until next time ladies, Stay beautiful. Stay positive. Stay YOU!

–Ziggy

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MsJ

 

Setting your tone for the day life is a major step towards becoming a positive person with a healthy positive mindset.  If you wake up everyday with a purpose, you are bound to do something positive and in line with your future goals.  Everyday you wake up is a new opportunity to live a life with purpose.  You don’t just want to dredge through life getting the bare minimum done.

Wake up in the morning and be thankful that you got to see the sky (no matter how gray it is) for one more day.  Once you climb out of bed and grab your coffee, make a list of just 5 things you have to do that day.  5 is a very manageable number of things to do. You’re motivated, but you’re not overwhelmed.  Think of how you are going to do these things (even if they are not the most fun activities) in the most positive way possible.

You’ll be amazed at how thinking positively will enable you to attract more positive energy.  Things will start going a lot smoother in your everyday life.  Everyday won’t be roses and sunshine, but setting the tone for your day might make dealing with those bad days a little easier.

Even if you have a bad day, when you wake up in a new day, put the bad things behind you.  Start over again determined to tackle the day a head of you and you’ll be amazed about the advancements you can make in your life every single day.  Set the tone for your day and life, and make it a FABULOUS one!  Learn more about living happier by clicking here…

As always, keep your head up!

–Ms. J

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Ziggy

You’re in the honeymoon stage of your relationship!  You’re dating the hottest guy in your town, literally, and he’s so into you!  But what’s a gal to think when you guys are at the mall and you see all those hot size 5’s walking around with their long sexy hair and crop tops showing off their teeny tiny bellys? Nothing!  That’s what you do.  Keep reading and thank me later!

One of the biggest things that can destroy a relationship is insecurities.  It’s really easy for anxiety to take over, and for you to think a bunch of things that never came up before.  Guys are hot, gals are hot!  But when a guy makes the decision to make you his girlfriend, that means he’s decided that YOU are the only one he wants.  You and just you alone.

Don’t give a guy a reason to not trust you.  And don’t just NOT trust a guy until he gives you a reason not too.  Live by these words!  Trust me, you don’t want to be wasting time being nervous about the relationship instead of actually enjoying it. There’s no reason for you to be worried about another girl.  News flash, there will ALWAYS be someone smarter, prettier, and with a nicer body than you.

But you’re NOT those gals.  You’re you!  You have your own unique look, and special personality!  People like you not because you look like all those other women out there, but because you’re yourself.  Just stay you, and you will attract the people that are meant to be in your life.  To get a boost on your self-esteem, check out Bev Knox Personal Development Classes & Coaching. It is 100% Online!

Guys do NOT like insecure women.  I know if I was a guy, and you were my woman, and you were being insecure every two seconds, I’d drop that ass like a beat!  I don’t care how cute or smart you are, that’s not sexy!  So don’t do it.  You’ll thank me later.

Until next time ladies, Stay beautiful. Stay positive. Stay YOU!

–Ziggy

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Crushing

MsJ

It can be a really tough idea to accept the fact that everything really does happen for a reason.  If you’ve had a hard life with a series of continual disappointments, you have to realize that negative things happen to us all.  Don’t take it personally and don’t simmer in the stew of negativity because that is when everything will go down hill.

You have got to understand that after the rain comes the sunshine.  Everything happens for a reason.  The negativity that happened in your life happened to make you a stronger person.  Believe it or not, negative events often helps to prepare us for life’s pending challenges and/or blessings that is yet to come.  You may have needed to overcome loss, in order to get that promotion helping others who have just suffered loss.  You may have gotten left at the alter, just so your REAL Mr. Right can find you single and available to love and accept love.

Life is never easy and road blocks pop up all of the time.  Sometimes it takes a few days, a few weeks or even a few years to realize that when something in your life didn’t go as planned, that it happened for a reason.  When something good happens you often acknowledge that it was something that was meant for you.  If you take that approach when the bad things happen, it’s possible that you’ll have a more positive feeling towards life overall.

Now, this doesn’t mean that you just sit around and let negative things happen to you.  You need to move out off the way when you see negativity coming.  In the case that you’ve done all you can and things still didn’t turn out right, remember that everything goes the way they are supposed to go… everything happens for a reason.  Shape and transform what you can into a positive, and let go of the things you cannot change.  Remember, everything happens for a reason.

As always, keep your head up!

–Ms. J

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People Pleaser

MsJ

Everyone at some point in their lives have failed at something.  Whether it’s something in your personal life, your goals or career, you’ve dropped the ball somewhere.  Guess what?  That’s OK.  Why is it OK?  Simply because as I’ve said before, we’ve all done it!  Here’s nothing wrong with getting a little egg on your face every now-and-then.

What makes successful people successful?  Successful people look at failure as an opportunity to start over again in a smarter manner.  You only need to make a mistake once (or even twice) at the most to know that you never need to go down that road again.  If you fail once, approach the situation from another angle and try again with a new plan.

Don’t accept defeat, if you fail try again.  Failure should never be an option.  If you’re realistic about something and giving it your best effort, you can succeed at almost anything.  Look at failure as an opportunity and watch your life change in a brighter,more positive direction!

As always, keep your head up!

–Ms. J

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Arianna Huffington is the editor-in-chief of The Huffington Post and the author of the No. 1 New York Times bestseller Thrive, now out in paperback. Her new Thrive eCourse with Oprah.com starts May 3. Register now at Oprah.com/Thrive.

Arianna partnered with the great team at Oprah.com to launch a 6-week course on Thriving… — a bridge from knowing what we need to do in order to thrive to actually doing it and thriving!  She lists 12 steps to help you move from merely surviving and succeeding to thriving.  Check it out… Read the full article on Huffington Post…

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