Stop waiting for some figment (Superman, Batman, Prince Charming, Knight in Shinning Armour, The Godfather, etc.) to come and save you from yourself, your problems and woes of life. Stop looking around the corner, over your shoulder, checking your cell phone 50x per day, just STOP it! He is NOT coming!
Whoever put that notion in your head, lied to you. I know they told you since your early childhood that you were a princess and your prince will soon come to rescue you. They told you to keep waiting and he will come. They lied! They told you the same type of brainwashing story that was told to them when they were young.
They used the lie as a form of pacification to create a helpless damsel all the while suppressing who you really are, a creative and talented woman. A woman who can think. A woman who is capable of becoming anything she wants to be. A completely fulfilled woman who is mature both mentally and emotionally. A well-balanced woman who will compliment her well-balanced man.
You are not a victim, stop seeing yourself as one. You may be down-and-out right now but this chapter in your life won’t last forever. It should be viewed as a learning tool that will only make you stronger. It will help propel you to the next level in your life. You have to view it as such or else you will get stuck in “damsel mode.”
Look through the nonsense, because after the storm comes the sunshine. You have to make the decision that you want to change your life for the better and take action in doing so. Visualize who and what you want to become. What type of lifestyle you want to live. Set goals to complete all aspects of your vision and then create a plan on how to obtain those goals.
You may need a coach or some personal development training to get you focused and ready to make that next move in your life. Take a look at our free resources that will start you on your journey.
You have got to become your own Superhero. You have got to save and rescue yourself. You have got to be the one putting forth the effort to changing your life and becoming an overall better person. You have to do this for you. Nobody else can do it for you. You can do it! Start right now…